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She's a woman, which means that she's inherently strong. -Stana Katic
She's a woman, which means that she's inherently strong. -Stana Katic
I’m sorry. But all those childish comments. The word relationship implies that two people are connected and interact. How can only one person be at fault on a matter like that one? Ironic too, how people keep saying that Castle is being immature about things when they’re only reacting that way to the episode because they now feel that they don’t own that control they thought they had over the show. Grow up. Start having relationships, real ones, with people, and discover. Discover how messed up your ego can make you when it’s hurt. And then, come back, and tell me, whose being immature? Because I got to say this. In Marlowe I trust. Know why? Because he made it feel real. Just as real as the relationship I’m leaving myself.
I’m sorry if I made you believe I don’t respect you. I do. And I love you.
Because I love you all, and because I wish we could all love each one of us despite our differences. <3
I love Stana Katic. It’s not a secret for anyone.
I love how much talented & passionate she is.
I love how much she cares for us & shares with us.
I love how much of a good person she is too.
I love how much power & influence she has over me, my life, my choices.
I love that she makes me want to be a better person.
What you guys may not know, is that I also like Nathan Fillion very much. He is a good person too & always manage to make me smile.
Now. I love Stanathan. And if that was a secret for anyone, now, it’s not anymore.
Those past days we got a lot of Stanathan moment that lighted up my week-end.
But then, I start reading different opinions about that Stanathan thing.
I completely understand why someone would “ship” them & why someone would not “ship” them.
I just want to make things clear about how I feel about Stanathan.
I really love them together.
Together as co-workers first of everything. They make me smile & laugh. They make me hurt & cry. Beckett & Castle is no more Caskett without Stana & Nathan, without Stanathan.
Together as friends too. The way they seem to act around & towards each other is beautiful. The way they tease each other. The way the make each other laugh.
Together as a couple. That is something that does not exist. Stana & Nathan never mentioned a possible romantic relationship between the two of them & therefore I do not even think about it being possible. I respect them way too much for doubting them.
Together as a couple. It’s something I would like to be real sometimes, because I would love them to be happy with each other.
But, if tomorrow Nathan announces that he’s getting married with a woman (or a man, who knows) I will be extremely happy for him.
And, if tomorrow Stana announces that she’s getting married with a man (or a woman, who knows) I will be more than extremely happy for her.
Because for me, that’s what you call love. And I love them.
So here goes my point: I do ship Stanathan, yes.
I ship the chemistry they’re capable of creating on screen.
I ship the closeness they seem to share.
But I most of all ship their happiness.
And I hope it’s the same for everyone.
- Take a picture of yourself with a sign saying “I love you” in your first language. Decorate it; personalize it. Be unique and original.
- Send the photo to me, UN-EDITED, through either Tumblr [just post it and message me the link to the post], Twitter, or email [skbdayproject@hotmail.com].
- Give me your name, age, where you live, and a small explanation of why you love Stana. Maybe even add a happy birthday in there sometime.
- If you want me to do ANY general touch-ups, I will. Touch-ups include a small amount of teeth-whitening & blemish fix. Nothing major.
- I will not accept any photos with editing effects on them. When I put it together, I’ll be making all the photos look alike so it flows well.
- I’ll be making a video slideshow.
- If you have any song requests to accompany the video, let me know. I’d really appreciate it.
Here’s my sample for it. This is me, with my sign. It’s not the one I’ll be using in the final project, just an example:
I’ve received a few submissions already. I’ve been getting lots of questions about it lately. It is not too late to join. If you have further questions, you can tweet me, message me, or email me. Thanks!
LET’S SING. Or lip sync.
I’ve done a few videos of her already so I didn’t want this one to be similar to those tributes. I chose a really nice song and at first, I thought we could sing the song and I’ll edit all the clips together. But then, one, people told me they want to be in it, but they can’t sing. Two, I can’t sing either. SO, I’ve decided. I’ll make sort of a music video type thing where you can just sing and dance and whatever to the song, but in the video, you’ll be muted out, but if you want to really sing, I won’t mute your voice out…I’m not explaining this very well but you can ask me questions if you have any. I’ll be using the song “I Love You” by Avril Lavigne (here) It’ll be only up to the end of the first chorus so you can lip sync or sing the whole song. Please, do something funny or unique and be yourself, haha. Do ANYTHING to make Stana smile while you singing along (: Just send it to me by 3/1/12. Please email your clips to stanavideo@yahoo.com INCLUDE your name and twitter username. Of course, don’t tweet this to her. I’ll try to see if I can get Tamala or any of the cast to send in a short clip. Hm, I think that’s it…I’ll do update/reminder posts on Tumblr if I think of something I need to add to this post. OH, if you want reminders, just send me an email telling me you want to participate and such and that you want me to remind you or update you by email. Have fun! Oh, please reblog because there’s PLENTY of space for A LOT of people to participate and I need to make sure there’s enough clips (:
I wonder if Stana really gets how much we do love her, because sometimes, I don’t get it myself.
She just has so much power and influence over my life and I never even met her.
It’s the strangest love I ever felt, but honestly, it’s probably the best one.
Thank you Stana.
